Sex, Obsession, and Murder: The Shocking Death of Hollywood Therapist Amie Nicole Harwick at the Hands of Gareth Pursehouse
On Valentine's Day 2020, the Hollywood Hills witnessed a chilling tragedy that sent shockwaves through the community. Amie Nicole Harwick, a renowned sex therapist, fell victim to the obsessive and violent wrath of her former partner, Gareth Pursehouse. This devastating event not only marked the loss of a brilliant and compassionate professional but also exposed the terrifying realities of an abusive relationship.
The Life and Tragic Death of Amie Nicole Harwick
Amie Nicole Harwick was a celebrated figure in the field of sex therapy, renowned for her ability to help individuals navigate complex sexual and emotional challenges. Her professional achievements were complemented by her engagement to Drew Carey, the beloved host of The Price Is Right. Yet, behind her thriving career and public persona lay a painful and dangerous chapter of her life—a tumultuous relationship with Gareth Pursehouse.
The Relationship: Possession, Abuse, and Obsession
Gareth Pursehouse, a former partner of Amie's, became consumed by obsession and rage after their relationship ended. The couple's romance, which began in 2009 and ended in 2012, was marked by violence and control. In 2011, Amie reported Gareth for physically assaulting her—choking, kicking, and attacking her—leading to a restraining order. Despite this legal protection, Gareth’s harassment persisted. He was suspected of vandalizing Amie’s apartment after the order was issued.
In January 2020, their paths crossed unexpectedly at a red-carpet event. The encounter reignited Gareth's fury. Enraged and humiliated, he accused Amie of ruining his life. In the weeks that followed, he resumed a campaign of terror, sending threatening messages and making incessant calls, prompting Amie to block him.
The Fateful Night of Valentine's Day
Amie's worst fears materialized on Valentine’s night. Michael Herman, a close friend, called 911, reporting screams and signs of a violent struggle at her home. When police arrived around 1 a.m. on February 15, they found Amie’s lifeless body outside her home, beneath a third-story balcony. A shattered glass door, a syringe filled with liquid nicotine, and her crucifix necklace were found near the scene.
Amie succumbed to her injuries in the early hours of the morning. Her death was a devastating blow to her loved ones and the community she had dedicated her life to helping.
The Investigation and Capture of Gareth Pursehouse
Authorities quickly gathered overwhelming evidence linking Gareth to the murder. DNA analysis, security footage, and the syringe found at the scene revealed his intent to poison Amie. When that plan failed, he brutally choked her, threw her from the balcony, and fled. Just 14 hours after the crime, Gareth was apprehended, bearing injuries from Amie’s fierce resistance.
A Harrowing Reminder of Domestic Violence
Amie’s tragic death is more than a personal loss—it is a sobering reminder of the dangers of domestic violence and the obsessive rage that can arise from abusive relationships. For Gareth, Valentine’s Day became a symbol of cruelty and hatred. For the world, it became a day of mourning an extraordinary life cut short.
This tragedy underscores the urgent need for stronger protections and resources for survivors of abuse, ensuring their safety and preventing such senseless acts of violence in the future.